Prevent Premature Ejaculation While Having Fun and Enjoyable Sex Using These 4 Techniques

Not being able to control your orgasm can not only be embarrassing inside the bedroom, but it can take control over you mentally outside of the bedroom as well. Many men that are cursed with premature ejaculation turn to pills and other costly alternatives when they can prevent premature ejaculation without spending a dime. Below are a few techniques you can use to prevent early ejaculation.

Releasing Before You Engage in Sexual Intercourse

Not just a funny scene from a popular movie, this technique actually works. If you tried this before and failed, then it is most likely because of your timing. You should “blow your load” an hour or two before you engage if sexual intercourse, but definitely no later than that (don’t forget to look in the mirror and check your hair!). This will desensitize your body, which will make your body take longer to reach an orgasm during your lovemaking session. It also relieves stress and takes a lot of pressure from you during “the deed”.

Changing Positions

A lot of men think that all positions provide the same amount of stimulation, but this is simply not true. Not only that, but most people who engage in intercourse rely on the same, prevalent positions every session. These positions are: doggy style and missionary — which is arguably the worse position to engage in when trying to prevent premature ejaculation.

The reason missionary causes you to come faster is because this position requires you to prop yourself up. This exacerbates the amount of tension in your arms and legs, thus resulting in you going over the edge and losing control of your arousal. Never start in this position unless you actually want to blow your load quickly (and I have had times when I have wanted to).

A great position to start in is cowgirl, which you can perform by laying on your back and letting her mount on top of you. The advantage of this position is that it provides less stimulation to the frenulum (the small fold of the skin, located on the underside of the rim where the head of your penis meets the shaft), and there is less movement, thus letting you relax and focus on caressing her body. As an added bonus, not only is she in control, but you get to take a break, or just be lazy! As they say, “just sit back, and enjoy the ‘ride'”.

The Delay Button

This is a little risqué tactic, but it works like magic once you master it. This move involves pressing down on the area on your perineum (the spot between your anus and testicles). When firmly pressed during an impending orgasm, this maneuver will impede the flow of semen. What happens is that the semen will flow back towards the bladder when you apply pressure to this spot.

After performing this, you will actually feel the full sensation of an orgasm, but without ejaculation. You will lose some firmness, but not enough to where you can not continue penetration and be running at full stead again soon after.

Can You Count To Nine… ?

This may be the most enjoyable and fun of them all. This method is recommended for two reasons:

1. So you do not have to stop penetration and frustrate the woman while she is enjoying the sex. Also, some men can even injure themselves from pulling out too often (it has happened to me, and it is not fun, and rather scary!). 2. It helps you focus more, and the woman will enjoy the varying thrusting that is occurring.

What you want to do is perform eight shallow thrusts about two to three inches deep, and then one really deep thrust. This can be varied (i.e. seven shallow with two deep thrusts; six shallow with three deep thrust; etc.).

This tactic works so well because deep thrusts are the ones that bring your penis closest to orgasm. The reason for this is because the frenulum and shaft skin are being stretched the most, causing greater arousal. Varying shallow and deep thrusts will help taper off the stimulation on the penis glans/head. Second, the first three inches of a woman’s vagina contain the most pleasure-seeking nerves and the shallow thrusts will stimulate her really well. It also diverts your focus from just strictly the penetration, and forces you to use your mind more, thus taking a lot of the focus off of the penetration itself.

Believe me when I tell you that after performing the last tactic, not only you, but the woman you are having intercourse with will want to try it many more times to come (pun intended). This is just as enjoyable for the woman as it is for you.

Of course, there are many other ways you can completely prevent premature ejaculation, enjoy longer lasting sex, and delay your orgasms for as long as you choose to.

write by Marwan Mousa